THIS SIDE OF THE OTHER SIDE....

I started my blog exactly one year ago. Today, I will have been divorced for 4 years. For a long time, it felt like I was barely surviving divorce, and then it was like digging my way out.

But now, I am just...a mom, who works, who loves her kid and her dog and her family and her friends. A woman who likes to laugh alot and usually has alot to laugh at about herself. A soul who has been captivated by the King of Kings and who's sweetest moments are spent in quiet (and sometimes not so quiet) communion at His feet. A blogger...who would have thunk it since my millennium goal was to send just one email? A citizen who is part of many communities....those near and those more global. A student who is learning from the thoughts and experiences of others. A reader who has 5 or 6 books going at a time.

I pray for my ex-husband and his wife every day...but I don't long for him. While my divorce is my life's biggest regret and biggest failure....I have my eyes set firmly forward...on the future.

It is time. I am closing this book called divorce and picking up another!

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WHAT I AM GIVING UP FOR LENT

Last Wednesday, our pastor taught on the season of Lent and Ash Wednesday. He talked about the ashes being made from palm branches and olive oil...palm branches, those very branches that were laid down before Jesus as He was welcomed as King into Jerusalem and the olive branch-the symbol of peace. He talked about this season as historically having an emphasis on prayer, fasting, and alms, on repentance and regeneration. As we read scripture together and prayed together, I suddenly knew what I would "give up" for lent.

As a child, I remember giving up sweets. I remember eating fish every Friday, since that day was the designated meatless day in my Roman Catholic traditions. I have to admit that once I became an adult, I rarely considered continuing this tradition as a necessary part of my life of faith. But as we talked last Wednesday, about letting God transform us through the traditions and practices of Lent, I came away with a fresh perspective.

I already mentioned, as we were praying God directed His spotlight on an area of my life that needs to be transformed. Just the night before, I had been praying about the burden of caring for my mother. I have been caring for her emotionally since I was 11 years old, and physically for about 16 or 17 years. I have complained about it. A lot. I have resented it. A lot. Circumstances are such that my daughter and I are living with her temporarily. It has not been pleasant and I have been very vocal about that. But what you hear me say has only been the tip of the iceberg of what I have carried in my heart.

So, for Lent, I am giving up complaining...especially about caring for my mother and where we find ourselves living right now. I am a bit excited to see how God will transform me through this time of "giving up". Last Thursday, I found myself complaining about something and only realized that I was, after I was done. Friday, I stopped myself a couple of times. I am coming to realize how much I complain. Now, I am not saying this is for everyone, but what I am starting to see in myself, is that my complaining has been leading to an ungrateful heart and an unloving attitude towards others. I have no idea what other things God will teach me through this time. I have no clue as to what visible things others may notice (or not notice for that matter). I just know that I want to keep my heart, my mind and my lips free of entanglements, free to offer up pure and holy sacrifices of worship and works. worthy of my King...who deserves every ounce of everything I have. Hosanna to the Christ!

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QUOTE OF THE DAY

"She sounds like a dead cat....

heh, heh...

well maybe not a

DEAD cat!"

Said while watching American Idol last night.

GRANDMA

Whew! It has been a busy week....but I wanted to finish telling you about my grandmother. My grandmother was absolutely my best
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She was everything a grandmother should be. She took us by bus to all kinds of places, including the Detroit Zoo. Belle Isle was our favorite though. I loved those bus trips with her. It was always an adventure. I loved going downtown with her, looking up at the huge buildings, hearing the sounds of the traffic and the people passing by. We would walk from her house, south of McGraw..to Michigan Avenue to catch the bus. We passed all kinds of people along the way, and she always had a word for each person we passed, often in another language. Her neighborhood was multicultural...lots of immigrants...and they taught each other their languages and customs.

She kept Bazooka Bubble Gum in a candy dish and Town Club pop in her cellar in the basement. And we could have as much as we wanted when our parents weren't around. I can't tell you how many times we stuffed as many pieces of gum as we could chew, trying to blow the world's biggest bubble. Or how many times she had to cut it out of our eyebrows and hair! She kept packets of M&M's in her dresser. Every kid in the neighborhood would be at her door to get their weekly chocolate fix...plain for some, peanuts for others.

We loved to spend the night at her house. She had the coziest "feather tick" (comforter) on the spare bed. She used to let me explore her closets and dress up in her hats. She had a navy lace dress and lace shoes. She had a box with hankerchiefs edged in lace and lots of pairs of gloves. I think the only piece of jewelry she owned that wasn't costume jewelry was her wedding band, but I loved her jewelry and nothing was off-limits...I could play dress up with it all. When I was a teenager, I asked her for one of her old coats. It was black and came down to just above my ankles. She couldn't believe I wanted that old thing...but I loved wearing it. I am sure I thought I looked very cool.

She cooked alot of big meals for the holidays. Traditional Polish meals with homemade pierogi, ham, fresh and smoked kielbasa, rye and pumpernickel bread and real butter. My grandfather converted their wood burning stove to gas and my grandmother had one stove going in the basement as well as the other stove in her kitchen. Her dining room table was long and was always beautifully set with a linen table cloth. We only used that table for eating on the holidays. Otherwise, they were kitchen people. There was a swinging door between the dining room and kitchen, but it was usually propped open. The walls of the living room and dining room were filled with pictures of grandkids and art that my mother had done.

Everything about my grandmother was homey and welcoming. But she was also strong. It took alot of courage to make that voyage to America as a 16 year old. She continued to display that strength throughout her life. Once, after she was widowed, a guy broke into her basement. When she unlocked the door to go outside...he was there waiting for her. He held a knife to her throat and demanded money. She calmly asked him if he was hungry. She fixed him something to eat. When he was done, he tried to rape her. He tied her up and told her he was going to kill her after he found her money. While he was looking through another part of the house, she was able to untie her hands and run out the front door. She screamed for help and a neighbor grabbed his shotgun and came to her aid. I never heard her talk about being scared or wanting to leave her home. She just took life as it came. Once, an Arabic family moved into a house across the alley. Some of the neighbors weren't too happy and kept writing threatening messages on the garage. Until the day they set the garage on fire. Now, in her neighborhood, the homes were so close together that a fire at one house could threaten several houses. So at 6 in the morning, my grandmother stood and battled the fire with her garden hose after calling the fire department. This was her neighborhood and she would do what she could to protect it. I still have to laugh at the thought of that...she was always such a lady. But a tough one. I think all of her ten grandchildren considered her the rock of our family.

Most of all though, I loved the hours and hours that my grandmother and I spent just talking...just being together. We talked about everything under the sun. I could listen to her stories over and over. We shared our dreams, the ones she realized, and the ones she hoped for me. When I got married, I asked her to be matron of honor. After all, isn't that reserved for one's best friend? She was afraid she might get sick...she often got sick in crowds and wasn't sure if she would hold up throughout the ceremony. We both often talked about the day she would hold my baby...but that day never came. She died before I was ever to get pregnant. Other than that, the only regret I have with my grandmother was that I was not with her on the night she died. She was able to live in her own home until she collapsed one November. After 3 months in the hospital, she had to go to a nursing home. She was only there for a few weeks until her heart began to fail. They sent her out to the hospital and I got a late night call. My brother told me she was dying, but that I should stay home...she would probably not live long enough for any of us to get there. I had talked to my grandmother about Jesus many, many times in the past. And while I was sure she was in His hands, how I longed to be with her and just hold her hand and pray for her while she was leaving this life. Instead, I got down on my knees and just prayed that God would send an angel to be with her and help her.

I see alot of my grandmother in my daughter, my other best friend. My girl wants to travel the world. She is quiet and understated yet very strong. She is alot of fun and we spend hours and hours talking, just sharing our thoughts and dreams. I wish they could have known each other. I am fortunate to have had them both.

Thanks for sharing my grandmother with me!

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Agnes & Thomas

Before she died, I did sit down with my grandmother to write down her story and memories. I also videotaped her and this past Christmas, my brother saved the video to dvd for all of us. It has become a treasure.

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I can't remember how my grandmother met my grandfather. He died when I was 11 years old and for the past couple of days I have been trying to remember him. I can't remember his voice, but I sure do remember his smile. He was "Tom" to my grandmother. And he was a good man. He took very good care of my grandmother. He was also of Polish descent. He was an American veteran of WWI. When the Great Depression hit, my grandparents found themselves struggling, like much of the rest of the country. They didn't have money for food. But the grocer let them keep a tab because he knew that Tom was a good man and would pay back every penny. They didn't have money to pay their mortgage, but their landlord respected Tom and told him that he would rather have Tom continue to live in the house because he knew Tom would take good care of it. And he knew Tom would make the back payments as soon as he was able. And Tom did. My mother was born in that very house and 10 grandchildren played in the magical nooks and crannies that house held.

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Tom was a quiet man. And while I can't remember his voice, I do remember that he always had grand kids crawling up in his lap. He wore sleeveless t-shirts. He retired from Cadillac Motors. He had snow white hair. He smoked a pipe. He loved to build things. He built chairs, and tool boxes, and trinket boxes for every grand kid. He had a huge work bench set up in the basement and we spent hours making things out of the scrap wood he kept or just playing around with his tools. He would put out a huge galvanized tub in the summers and that would be our pool. We would clamor to go with him when he was going out because we loved walking beside him as he stopped to have a word here and there with neighbor. When he dropped in at the beer garden around the corner, we knew that meant a root beer for us. And peanuts in the shell.

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Tom was a quiet man. He was a man that was deeply loved by his family. He was Daddy to my mother, long after she was grown with her own children. My aunt was 6 years older than my mom. When she married, my grandfather turned the upstairs into an upper flat. She and my uncle lived there for several years. When my parents married, they occupied the upper flat. Both son-in-laws deeply respected my grandfather. They loved him like he was their own father.

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Tom loved to feed the birds and the squirrels. Every morning, he would go out and put birdseed out. There were always tons of birds that flocked to the feast in my grandparents' backyard. My mom told me that he once had a bird that would come and sit on his shoulder to be hand fed.

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My grandparents shared what they had. Besides feeding the birds, they fed hobos during the Depression. Anyone coming to the door got a plate...whatever they had on hand. For years and years, they sent money to relatives in Poland who had been left without work or homes after WWII. Friends frequented their house. My grandfather and his cronies, which included my paternal grandfather, used to sit and play cards...a lot. So much so, that years later, we used to love to peek under the table cloth on the kitchen table to see the wear marks they left, two spots on each side of the table, where they rested their arms while holding their cards.

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I don't ever remember my grandparents fighting. Or hugging and kissing for that matter. People weren't open about such things back then. But I do know they had an easy, loving, and respectful marriage. My brother and I had spent the night at my grandparents house the night my grandfather died. He had had several heart attacks over a few years. I remember waking up and hearing whispering voices. I passed my grandfather's room and saw him lying in bed and I remember the sunlight streaming through the window. My grandmother was talking to a man in a dark suit. When I went into the kitchen, I found my aunt and my mom. It was then I learned that my grandfather had died. Everything felt quiet and peaceful. Just like my grandfather. Quiet and peaceful.

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Years later, as a newly married woman, I was talking to my grandmother about my grandfather. Woman to woman, she shared how dark the days after his passing were for her. It was only then that I learned the depth of her love and passion for my grandfather. When she recalled their early days, her eyes lit up. When she talked of his death, she grew somber. Her love and grief were quiet. It wasn't either of their ways to be over-emotional...just steady and calm. My grandmother told me that she didn't want to eat, or sleep...she just kind of existed after Tom died. Then one morning, she heard a tapping at the back porch window. It was one of the birds that Tom used to feed. The robin was looking into the window and then tapping. She figured she might as well continue feeding "his" birds. When she went outside to put the seed in the feeders, she said the sun broke through some clouds. She said she knew then that somehow, the sun would shine in her heart again someday, and she would be alright.

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Pictures taken by my daughter. These are hanging up in my mom's house. More of the story to follow.

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I was picking up a few groceries last night and I saw them. Pink azaleas. This was the flower I liked to give my grandmother every year on her birthday...Valentine's Day. I was caught off guard by the grief I suddenly felt. After all, it was more than 18 years since she had died.

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My grandmother was born near Tarnow, Poland. Her parents owned a farm. My grandmother was the eldest of several children. She was an outstanding student and won awards in reciting poetry and prose. She learned to love beer as a child. Her father brewed his own. Once, she wanted a little taste but forgot to close off the tap of the keg completely. The keg slowly dripped all day while her father was out in the fields. At the end of the day, he went out to fetch some beer to have after supper and found a completely empty keg. My grandmother said she was embarrassed when her parents talked of her drinking the whole keg, but she always had a sparkle in her eye when she told the story, letting her listener know that she knew they were only teasing her. As long as I could remember, my grandmother had a small glass of beer in the afternoon.

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When she was 16 years old, my grandmother left her homeland to come to America. She always told us that her mother was quite religious and had rows and rows of holy pictures on the wall. It was my grandmother's job to clean the pictures each week and she hated that job. She said that she decided to immigrate because she knew that if she got married and lived any where close to her mother, her mother would make sure she had rows and rows of holy pictures at her house, too. So, she decided to move to America. I suspect that the real reason had something to do with the possibility of an arranged marriage to a wealthy, but much older man. Her mother didn't want to let her go, but she overheard her father say, "If we don't let her go, and she marries and is unhappy, she will blame us all her life." Besides giving her their blessing, they also gave her a few thousand dollars to start her new life, quite a sum back in that day.

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So, at 16, my grandmother traveled by train across Europe and then by boat across the Atlantic to arrive in America. Like most American immigrants, she never forgot the sight of the Statue of Liberty standing as a beacon to those arriving at Ellis Island. Because she only spoke Polish, the official at Ellis Island did not understand her when she gave her name. So he changed it. That is when Agatha Borek became Agnes Borek.

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My great-grandmother's sister lived in Chicago (they all later moved to Detroit), so my grandmother went to stay with her. Her aunt was not a very nice person and little by little, stole the money that my grandmother had hidden away in her room. She also refused to give her much food, allowing her only bread for her lunch. My grandmother was also required to turn over her wages to the aunt. My grandmother had found a job rolling cigars because it was something she could do that did not require her to speak English. Some of the women she worked with found out what was happening and convinced her to move out. Which she did.

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My grandmother met a wonderful man and they married. On her wedding day, her evil aunt showed up outside and cursed them, saying that she hoped the man died and my grandmother was left a widow. Unfortunately, the man contracted TB and despite moving out to the warm, dry climate in Arizona, he grew worse and died. Even with all the awful things my grandmother's aunt had said and done, my grandmother never returned evil for evil and was always kind, generous, and gracious to this aunt and her family.

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(more to follow)

WHERE GOD HAS LED ME TODAY

He has showed you, O man, what is good. And what does the LORD require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God. Micah 6:8

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My response can only be the words of your servant David--"May the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be pleasing in Your sight, O LORD, my Rock and my Redeemer." (Psalm 19:14) Teach my Your ways, tame my wayward heart, strengthen me, correct me, purify me, sanctify me. I am Yours, I am Yours!

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I AM DONE COMPLAINING

I received these pics in an email today. This is a town in Switzerland.

We were in the 20's today and it felt like spring. I am DONE complaining!!

(By the way, I think this might be the perfect vacation spot for my winter loving friend, Sara!)

QUOTE OF THE DAY

"I think my blood is ok."

Said by my mom when she was told by an emergency room nurse that they were going to be drawing blood for some bloodwork.

BRRRRRRRRRRRRR!

It is soooooo cold. We have been hit by an artic blast for the past couple of days. Tonite, the windchill factor will be 20 (F) below. I want to hibernate next to a warm fire, with a mug of hot tea and lemon, and good book. I will let you know if I see any polar bears!

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SPARKY THE WONDER DOG

I LOVE my dog. I think he is perfect and wonderful and a gift directly from God to Rachel and I. I was praying about finding a dog for my daughter. Our yard was adjacent to a very busy parking lot and I wanted a dog that would protect her and watch over her. She had one dog that we rescued from the pound...an escape artist Beagle that Rachel named Malisha. Malisha could have cared less about Rachel and I am sure would have sold her out for a moldy, half-eaten hot dog. But, Malisha stories will be saved for another day. As I was saying, I was praying about just the right dog and I kept seeing a picture of Border Collie in my mind. After much dog research, I decided that a Wheaten Terrier would be the best dog for our family, our lifestyle, and our size yard. So, I began the hunt for a Wheaten. But every time I would pray, I would see a Border Collie. And then one day, when I was looking through the paper, I saw an ad- "Border Collie pups for sale". We traveled almost 3 hours to find 6 month old pups, not exactly the new puppy thing I was going for. And boy, were they hyper. I know Border Collies are high energy dogs used to running over 40 miles a day. I stepped out of the pole barn to send up another quick prayer..."Lord, are You sure? Am I really hearing from You?" I peeked back in the barn and there he was, one pup standing with his two front legs on the ledge of the pen, just looking straight at me with a look that said, "Me. I am the one you are waiting for!" Obviously we brought him home and Rachel named him Sparky. Border Collies often require only hand signals from their owners. Sparky studies our faces so intently....often, it takes just a look for him to know what it is we want from him. He is so devoted to us, that other people try to engage him and he will totally ignore them, just keeping a steady focus on us. Of course, when Rachel was small, it became his duty to protect and herd her and her friends, just like they were sheep. My neighbor used to try to entice Sparky with pieces of steak, but nothing would deter Sparky from his job of protecting Rachel. Once, Rachel was in the yard next door and she was screaming with laughter. Sparky thought she was in trouble and my neighbor said he watched as the dog sailed right over the fence to "save" her. We could leave the gate open and Sparky would stay in the yard, only coming out if we called to him. I was grooming him one time and he had a mat behind his ear. I went to cut it away and he was whining. I thought the sound of the scissors was bothering him, so I told him firmly to "stay/hush". He was perfectly still and quiet while I finished. It was only then that we noticed that I had actually cut him. I felt horrible! When my husband left, I never worried about us being alone, because I knew we had Sparky there to protect us. He is constantly at our side.

Sparky inspires me in my relationship with God. Watching Sparky with my daughter and I, reminds me to keep intently focused on MY Master....to search His face, to obey unwaveringly and without question, to be devoted in my love to Him, to live only to be near Him and to honor Him.

I love my dog!

WINTER AROUND MY HOUSE

We had our first real, gonna stay around, snowfall of the season yesterday. Rachel took a few pics and yes, Richard, that IS a black squirrel!

ON UNITY IN THE MIDST OF DIVERSITY

May the God of endurance and encouragement grant you to live in such harmony with one another, in accord with Christ Jesus, that together you may with one voice glorify the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ. Therefore welcome one another as Christ has welcomed you, for the glory of God. Romans 15:5-7

SUPER? OR SUPER ANNOYING?

I hung up the phone and braced myself. I knew it was coming. One, two....there it was from across the room..."Sooooooper!"

I get teased at my office for my phone persona. Every day I leave the quiet of my office and go out into our dispatch center to cover the phones during lunch for 2 to 3 hours. And most of the time, I enjoy the snippets of personal conversation that occur while I am taking orders. It has been said that you can hear a smile over the phone if you actually smile while you talk and I think this is true. I try to convey that during the calls. Not to be fake, but because I really do enjoy interacting with people. There is Mike and Herman from two local news stations, Wendy from a manufacturing plant, and Joe from a prestigious law firm downtown. I recognize their voices right away. One of our customers, Todd, was pretty happy one day and when I asked him about it, it was because his birthday was coming up. I made sure he got his favorite cake on his birthday...german chocolate...from the best bakery around.

A few months back, I noticed a couple of the guys in the office saying "soooooper" a lot when I was hanging up from a call. I asked, "Are you guys making fun of me?" and their laughter answered me. Now, these are the nicest guys...two of my favorite people in the whole office....so I just went with the fun and started telling customers to have a super day before hanging up. When they leave for lunch I remind them to have a super lunch. When we leave at the end of the workday, they tell me to have a super evening or super weekend. Lots of stuff is just super now when we are talking.

Yesterday, my daughter and I were walking into the library. A couple was leaving and passed us by. They were laughing so I said, "You two are having too much fun!" We exchanged a bit of conversation and each went on our way. My daughter smiled and said something to the effect of, "You just always have to talk to people don't you?"

It's true! I chit chat with the person at the fast food drive through, the person at what ever counter I find myself at, the bagger who bags my groceries....I have even been known to roll down the window and talk to the person in the car next to me. For me, being around people is like letting a dog loose in a butcher shop---Wow! Now this is heaven!!

But when it happened again today....that "soooooper!" from across the dispatch center, it made me wonder....am I super friendly? Or super annoying? Hopefully? Just soooooooper goofy-I could live with that!

By the way......have a soooooooooooooooper day!

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I REMEMBER YOU

In two days I will, once again, associate myself with You by celebrating Your Communion. And I will remember.

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I will remember that You broke bread and passed the wine among those closest to You...knowing that when You told them to eat and drink, they would not comprehend what it would mean to devote themselves, fully and wholly, to You.

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I will remember that You suffered. That nails did not hold You to the wood, but love and obedience held You there.

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I will remember that You, Beautiful One, Holy One, Glorious One, You...Jesus the Christ, allowed Yourself to be beaten and spit on and jeered at.

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I will remember that the very Earth, shuddered and trembled when You raised Your voice and said, "It is finished" and then inhaled a last breath.

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I will remember that this was not the end. I will remember that soldiers guarding Your tomb fell as dead at Your resurrection.

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I will remember that those who peeked in the tomb that had held Your earthly body did not find You there.

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I will remember that You were the one to bring comfort and hope and joy to Your followers when they saw You, risen and alive. When they touched You and ate with You and talked with You.

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I will remember that there is no one, anywhere, no god ever, who could have stood in Your place.

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I will remember that a Holy God not only forgives my sins but bought me back from darkness, rescued me, redeemed me, with the sacrifice of Himself.

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I will remember that this remains a mystery to me. I don't understand the miracle. I don't understand what the cost to You really was. I don't understand this love that motivated You. I don't understand how holy this is.

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I just know that remembering makes me fall on my knees before You in worship and gratitude. I just know that I want You to free me from the guilt and sin that I grasp so tightly, still. I just know that I want to be near You. I just know that I love You. I just know that I want to shout, "Here is my Beloved. Here is my King. He is risen! He is Mighty! He is alive!"

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For I received from the Lord what I also delivered to you, that the Lord Jesus on the night when he was betrayed took bread, and when he had given thanks, he broke it, and said, “This is my body which is for you. Do this in remembrance of me.” In the same way also he took the cup, after supper, saying, “This cup is the new covenant in my blood. Do this, as often as you drink it, in remembrance of me.” I Corinthians 11:23-25

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UDATE ON FRED

Fred has come through surgery very well. He is feeling so much better and his doctor said he will only continue to improve. I will be certain to let him know of your prayers and concern.

PLEASE PRAY

Please be praying for my friend Richard and his family...especially his mom. She has been battling cancer for two years and is not doing well.

Also, my friend Rebecca who is going through a tough time right now.

Thanks. I know they will appreciate it.

MY NEW FAVORITE WORD!

redemptino!

I REALLY LIKE THIS BOOK!

I have been thinking alot about people lately. With the start of another American Idol season, I am counted among those who tuned in this week to watch the auditions of the very good and the very bad. Perhaps it is because I sing very badly, but my heart just went out to these individuals who were making themselves so vulnerable on national television. Underneath the tone-deafness, oddness, fatness, thinness, geekiness, diva-ness, shyness, obnoxiousness...I wondered at each face...Who are you really? Who is the person we don't get to see? What are the things that motivate you? weigh on your heart? consume you?

Jesus was a people person. Jesus loved people. People knew that Jesus loved them. In his distinctively simple yet forthright style, Miller takes a look at people in this book. He is causing me to look at some very important questions: Who do I value? Who would I vote off the lifeboat? What was Jesus like while He lived as a human? How do I treat people?

I haven't quite finished this book but I have had a hard time putting it down...it is THAT good. I want my daughter to read this after I am done. Let me know if you want to borrow it after her.

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P.S. I added new links to some of the blogs I frequent. Check them out if you have time.

CHALLENGE

"Submission is the ability to lay down the everlasting burden of needing to get our own way."

- Becoming Like Christ by Richard Foster

Have this mind among yourselves, which is yours in Christ Jesus, who, though he was in the form of God, did not count equality with God a thing to be grasped, but made himself nothing, taking the form of a servant, being born in the likeness of men. And being found in human form, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross. Therefore God has highly exalted him and bestowed on him the name that is above every name, so that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth, and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father.

-Philippians 2:5-11